I’d like to think that while we go through the things we go through, we can ultimately learn the lessons needed, and continue forward to grow and perfect our lives with the ability to change any outcome presented. It seems that although we have the illusion of freewill, sometimes situations force us to think a certain way because of circumstances that are out of our control resulting in multitude of thoughts, while these thoughts can be good or bad.
Since we are emotional and social beings, the only real connection is how we feel about ourselves and others around us. Sometimes in many occasions the purpose of our lives doesn’t exactly seem worthwhile, and certain solutions are not the answer. Likewise, if it may seem like your all alone, the truth is your life is like a puzzle that fits exactly where it’s needed, and you just being you, is changing the world in ways you can’t even imagine. Your life really does matter, and this is my view on why it does.
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Upbringing
What’s strange to me is that we are born into this world with no memory of where we came from and the purpose our life serves. It’s said that in the spiritual realm we decide exactly what we are going to experience, what family we are born into, and the lives we chose to live which seems like we are blindly navigating our lives and each experience. In turn, I completely understand why when things go south, I can see why many people give up, and chose to experience situations of a lower vibration which include drug use, addictions, and other situations that don’t serve any real value. All of which stems from verbal and physical abuse that lasts a lifetime which Is dependent on how you were raised.
It’s sad when children are exposed to negative situations because most behaviors are imprinted on a young mind, and carried throughout one’s life which resurfaces at a later point. This is where many people’s decisions are solely based on emotional impulses, and often times leads to a lack of self-control where consequences can determine one’s future. All the while, many conditions could have been solved if positive values were instilled early on.
Whereas, on other occasions, the person that is affected the most, has the most love to give while helping others along the way. This is why group therapies are so effective when coming to terms with certain outcomes that each person in the group has experienced, but has dealt with it in a different manner. Additionally, perspective is sometimes all it really takes for someone to fully accept and develop a positive outlook moving forward.
While each and everyone will eventually encounter rough times, some people just experience such events early on. This can be anything from loss, to uncertainty, loneliness, abuse, etc., and while it’s expected in this life, there is much value gained in such experiences. Although it’s not exactly ideal, you should realize that if you went though hard times early on, it basically gives you the mental toughness that many individuals aren’t equipped to handle later down the road.
That’s why you hear about people that grew up in ideal conditions committing other than favorable acts, but as I come to understand it’s all about perspective. If you do a little bit of research, you will find that on the spiritual side there really is no right or wrong, there are just choices, and with choices you are taught early on what exactly makes them right or wrong depending on the emotions it brings.
As hard as it may seem we all are capable of making light of bad situations and overcome the demons we unknowingly guard. Strange as it may seem, it makes us feel safe because we have been dealing with them for so long, we have adjusted our personalities and behaviors up until we face them head on. Stranger still, after we worked through what seemed impossible, you arrive to point of clarity, and the feeling of lightness you never knew was in you. I’d personally would love to live in a perfect world, but something the cards that we are dealt early on can potentially change a life, and our lives all together.
Impact of your life on others.
Depending on who you talk to, sometimes you find individuals that have just had enough in which sometimes it is completely understandable. Sadly, the world we live in, in such cases people with terminal illnesses are the ones to teach us the most about what living really means. As odd as it may seem, you have the opportunity to reflect on your own life and prioritize the meaningful aspects that you weren’t fully aware of.
This could be spending more time with your family, taking the trip you always wanted, learning a new something, and just experiencing your life as you were meant to. When looking at the whole picture, you can find meaning in suffering in other people because it makes you focus on what’s important. While it may seem selfish, the person provides a greater value of love and light where he, or she wasn’t capable of displaying otherwise in regards of changing individuals point of views.
On the hand, it shouldn’t take someone’s misfortune to provide substance to someone life, sometimes all it really takes is the for the right person to show up. Let’s say you had a friend, and this friend was the only person they could talk to. While building a relationship and trust, this friend unknowingly has many problems you weren’t aware of, but your presence alone helps them better cope with pressures where otherwise if you weren’t around, a certain outcome would be expected.
If you take it a step further, let’s say this person really turned their life around because of something you said that struck a chord, and later down the road this someone had a child, and this child changed the world. Although this is a completely hypothetical instance, the probabilities of this happening are great because you never really know who you will encounter throughout your life, and probably you will never see the results of such interactions.
Nevertheless, as insignificant as you may see yourself, the results of you just being you, which is said to be a mathematical anomaly in of itself, have the potential to change lives. This is real talk and thank you for being you, because you never really know who you will meet and talk to on any given day, it just very well maybe you. Furthermore, there is a theory called the six degree of separation that states that any six people met on any given day, is somehow connected to everyone else by means of a relative, or a friend of a friend.
You see, not only does your life make a difference outside of what you may think there are, many parts of who you are give someone a sense of purpose, but you just don’t see it. While it may feel lonely at times, sometimes a change is right around the corner, but were to focused on a temporary problem. For whatever reasons, many of the things we go through are predetermined factors that we agreed upon before incarnating into this life, and it is up to us to decide how to proceed with our lives. I know it’s hard, but just know you are not alone, and many others feel the exact same way you do.
Why your life matters
If you knew the true potential of what your true purpose was, you would realize everyday is a gift and the details that you thought were important would fall away. When you take into account what we really can accomplish in our lives, we mostly listen to other’s criticisms while never fully living to our full potential. So, when that day comes, looking back at everything, many people regret not doing more of what made them happy. This is exactly our problem, while we are so wrapped up in lower frequency emotions, we can be doing the things that make excited about life, while providing purpose to ourselves and helping others.
Another way to think about this is if you ever experienced a loss of a loved one where they meant everything to you, and one day their life was cut short not of their own will, would you think differently about how you would feel if that person knew what you were going through. When you think about it like this, this is precisely why your life matters to those you surround yourself with, and you just being you is all that really matters. Let your light shine and let no one get you down.
In another article, I wrote about the great illusion of separation which gives details of how are lives are connected in ways that aren’t always obvious, and how everyone is affected by any given event.
I myself don’t have all the answers neither does the medical establishment, just know that sometimes just talking to someone is all you really need. I understand that somethings can’t be changed, but I know that my life as well as everyone around me matters in ways that are well beyond my understanding and comprehension. There are people that may seem to turn their back on you, but you will find many others that are willing to help you to navigate through hard time. You just need the willingness to accept what people are trying to offer. That is the whole purpose of what this article is all about, and if I can help just one person, I have done my job here on this physical plane. You are not alone.
Conclusion
While there are going to be times that seem like there are no other solutions, just take a step back and realize it just life trying to help you to problem solve. In my opinion, we are created for the sole purpose to experience and learn what this crazy life is all about. If life was to easy, we probably would get bored and not really enjoy what it has to offer. Likewise, we are all in it together, and the time spent with each is all that really matters. If you think that your life has no meaning, trust me, somewhere someone remembers you, and depending on the circumstances, had some kind of impact. Never be ashamed of who you are. You are you, you are loved, and your life matters. If you need help, please seek it, we all depend on you.
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